That Special Bond With Your Child

That Special Bond With Your Child

I was always close to my mom, in fact I still am.  As a child I followed her around and tried to do the things that she did.  As a parent I find myself trying to be like my mom again.  She is a great source of knowledge and common sense when it come to parenting that I  can’t help but turn to her for help.  Whether it is help in finding the best crib or some guidelines and when to start feeding my baby solid food, mom is the information guru in my life.

Tips For Raising A Healthy Bab

I have tried to write down some of mom’s better tips that have helped me as I raise my kids.  Some are common sense, some are things I never would have thought of until mom mentioned it, but all of the ideas have helped me at one time or another.

Babies discover by exploring the things around them.  Encourage your child to take a look at, listen to, touch or smell something new or different.  They are curious by nature and if they feel that you are there to help them they will easily try different things.  Hold your child so they can see the new and curious object that you want them to discover.  Assist them as they try to grab and hold objects like her socks or a rattle. As they grow you can  present them with more challenging items that will intrigue them.

Babies Are Learning All Of The Time

Here are some good ideas to keep in mind as your child begins to explore the world around them:

  • Be your child’s teacher. They will watch and see how you respond to things and will try to copy what you do. As your child grows, show them how things work. You will be surprised at how interesting simple things like a door opening and closing will be to a youngster.
  • When you child is finding out something new, let them try it again and again. With your aid and assistance this can be enjoyable, and your baby will like trying brand-new things.
  • Safeguard your child from severe disapproval, teasing or punishment. A child doesn’t understand right from wrong. They not understand what things may be dangerous or harmful, they are just curious.   Safety first, you will need to teach them from the beginning what is safe and what is not.
  • Talk and sing to your child. Even before they the ability to speak a baby will respond to the sound of your voice and find comfort in it. Speaking and singing to them will help them develop language abilities, even if their first words are them mimicking you. Babies learn best when you talk with them.
  • Read to your baby from the earliest months of her life and continue this habit as she grows. No successful person has ever said that their parents didn’t read to them.

Children Have Individuals Skills, Too

From the start, your baby is interested in your face. They notice your expressions and intonations and will respond to both.  Babies also react instantly to your emotions. For example, when you say something in a soft and loving way, they will relax and feel more secure.

Researchers have found out that infants show emotions as early as one month old.   While they may not be able to express emotions and feelings in any way except crying they are able to experience a wide range of feelings.  You will learn to recognize some of these emotions quickly, others may puzzle you forever.


Babies remember things better when they are pleased and at ease. The method you hold and talk to your child can assist her feel happy.  Children who have a sense of safety and comfort will be able to learn faster and express themselves better.

Babies who are alert and aware of their surroundings are more likely to look at things, explore and play. This is a great learning process for children of all ages, their natural curiosity will lead to more learning.

Brief durations of distress or problem will occur. These will not harm a kid. Short durations of unfavorable emotions can be valuable for your baby. You need to do something quickly to them feel much better but children learn quickly how to work through periods of duress.  Extended periods of upset and distress, like crying, can do damage.  You don’t want to ignore you child’s crying but you will learn soon enough how to react and realize the severity of the duress.


In the first month, the negative feeling that takes place is distress or a response to pain. The distress is often hunger, your baby’s body is in an advanced stage of growth and development.  Help your baby be at ease with having emotions, comfort them instead of reprimanding  them . Respond to there feelings in a warm and caring way.

After a while you will be able to figure out what your baby is feeling by changes in there facial expressions. You can also see what they are feeling by there posture, movements and the sounds they make.  Be patient, your child will be a mystery to you in many ways but you will begin to get comfortable with their reactions.

Starting to Interact

It will be many months before your infant utters there first word.   While it is natural to want them to start speaking sooner rather than later, it can be up to 18 months before actual words and sentences are spoken.  Babies start learning about language much earlier than most parents realize, they may take longer to start using language themselves.

Even in the very first few weeks after birth, your infant is discovering language. Really young infants can discriminate in between speech and other sounds. They can discriminate between the voices of guys and the voices of females. They even understand the voices of their own moms. A baby can tell the voice of her mom from the voices of other females. Researchers believe children are able to do this because of the way specific parts of their brains work.

Children can also communicate long before they speak. They use movements and sounds to let you know what they want or don’t want. Some people refer to these as an infant’s “signals”.

Right now, your child can inform you if she requires something by crying or fussing. When they like or want something or somebody they will stare intently, hoping that you understand. When they begin to see that parents react to them in positive ways, infants discover how to inform moms and dads what they like or do not like.


Even prior to your baby speaking, you need to talk to your baby. Talking to infants offers them language skills that will help them function easily when they get to school. Hearing words on the radio or TV is not very practical to infants finding out language.  They don’t have a sense of context when they hear a statement on TV and won’t understand its meaning.

Babies Cry.  Get Used To It.

What to do with a crying baby.

Crying is the method newborns interact and communicate. Your new child weeps to let you know she wants or requires something.  It may be food, it may be water, it may be they are uncomfortable.  It is up to you to figure out what needs to be done to calm them down.

The very first thing to attempt when a child cries is to feed them. By discovering when they need to be fed and when they doesn’t,  you will begin to learn which cry means hunger and which cry means discomfort.

As you and your infant get to know each other, you will often be able to discriminate in between each kind of crying. You can then address the problem and help your baby feel comfortable again.  Despite some badly given advice that you will probably receive, trying to comfort you child when they are crying won’t spoil them.  You need to address their problem and try to fix it.

Touch, smile and talk to your infant as frequently as possible. Do this when you are feeding them, changing their diaper or giving them a bath. Your child will find out that she can depend on you to take care of them.

Ways to Relieve Your Infant

In some cases infants cry even when they have actually been fed, have clean diapers and are healthy. If your infant is crying due to the fact that they just need to be comforted,  there are numerous things you can do. Every child is different.

Here are things you can look for out what soothes your child down.

– Rock your baby in your arms or while sitting in a rocking chair.

– Stroke your infant’s head really gently, or gently pat them on the back or chest.

– Make soft noises to let your child know you are there and you care.

– Talk quietly and gently to your child.

– Gently sing to your infant or play soft music.

– Wrap them up in a favorite blanket.


If your baby keeps crying after you have attempted a few relaxing techniques, remain calm. Babies understand when you are upset. No matter how stressed out you are, never shake your child. Shaking your infant can cause loss of sight, mental retardation or even death.

Don’t be afraid to ask for help, it is not a sign of bad parenting.  If you require a break, call a relative, neighbor or good friend to assist. All children cry and all children are challenges at times. You will not have the ability to comfort your child every time. That does not imply you are a bad parent, in fact it means you are normal. Do the best you can to soothe and comfort your infant.




Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published.